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Season 0, Episode 4 · 5 months ago

Interview with Breana Gabriel | The VIP Table #4

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It's going on basement lace, fans,welcome to this month's installment of the VIP table where we sit down with avery special guest talk to him about their career, about their field, get ita little bit more and have some fun. This show is brought to you by Hoddetch member guys, condon over to pod Zecca. If you want to get some awesomedex of cards that help, you give you ideas for new episodes, interviewquestions, you can also get stuff like this sexy hat right here: t shirts,mugs all that kind of stuff and use the COB l ten to get ten for some of onyour total purchase at check out our guest today is a an aspiring, podcast er, as well as alife coach, and we're going to talk with her about how she has transitioning into this part of herlife or seat, did such a great great thing for people for a living. What herunique take on it is and what's good and bring her in right now. BrianaGabriel, Ladies and gentlemen, if this thing would actually I hate zoom sovery, very much and not editing us out, I don't care it's staying in there. She is hello, hello. I Briana. How are you I'mgreat? How are you going awesome? Thank you so much for coming on the show.Today it's going to be great, getting to know you and getting in a little bitabout what you do. Yeah thanks for having me, I'm excited! Well, let'sstart off right off the bed. I did A. I did a crap Taula job of introducing youand describing what it is you do. So, let's start off by having you want,just tell the folks at home a little bit about who you are and just likewhat it is you do yeah I love it will hi everyone. My name is Briana. I am acertified N, Lp Life and business coach. So what that means is I specialize inwind set shifting, so, if you're heavy on the love of self development, that'smy Arab expertise and you know just to be a better you and what that lookslike. I help you kind of hone in on who you are and what you want out of yourlife and and we met, we met Briana throughclub house. If you guys are not on the club House AP, yet find somebody whocan invent you to get you on it's available on IPO, an android now andit's a great it's a great communal communal spot and I kind of wanted tostart off with that, which is what, in your line of work and the kind ofthings you do well was that drew you to club House for the first time, man. I was just actually fascinatedabout the network and knowing that people are speaking in real time. Youknow you can listen or have all these social media platforms, but all ofthose things are edited and they don't come out the same day. So when I heardI'm like okay, an audio, is this going to be, you know like podcast or youjust listen, but I'm like you can meet people and you're listening to themspeak and just getting to learn. You know from big names or just anybodythat you're interested in it caught my attention and what's your experience been like onon Club House so far? Oh, I loved it for one, I've been converting justclients, because when I tell somebody you know what I do they want to themore and it's also been a learning opportunity that I'll go in, and I justhave my note book like okay. What don't I know already? What do I want toimplement you know, and how can I ask questions to people that that's theirarea of expertise? I don't know where we met was in some of the in the in theupcoming podcast ers groups, and I know you're in that developmental stage ofdeveloping your own podcast. So He, where are you at in that process sincewe first started talking yeah, so I have a name down. I'm working on thedescription right now, I'm figuring out how to actually edit the audio, so I'vebeen playing around with voice notes. I've been looking at Mike, so I'm a lotfurther, along than I thought so. I'm kind of thinking the end of July firstthing August and that's kind of where I...

...mean I'm excited, and so and by thetime this is dropping it's going to be the end of June, beginning of July. Sowhat is the name of the podcast so that people can start to look out for itwhen we get into that going to be the nixt row, the mixed rose. Now, wheredid that name come from well for one? I got my DNA from twenty three and me,and I already knew I was mixed with a lot of things. But let's just say Idon't know what I'm not yeah, everything and Yeah. I just Idon't know you could see you know for those watching. I have not an obsession, but I love roses andwhat it is is because I look at our life like a rose, whether it's dying orit's flourishing. There's always the story and there's always beauty behindit, and I kind of tying that into the self development world, whether youfeel you know kind of crappy. Your Life is still beautiful to somebody else.That's that's a long way and that that's such a great, a great mentalityto have considering your line of work as a life coach. As someone who haschosen to dedicate their life, their livelihood to in the most layman's terms possible,helping other people figure their own lives out in a way. What was the? What was the guidingforce into this line of work? Oh man being a people person, buthonestly it happened. I feel, like I give goose bumps every time. I justthink about the story, but I was at a fast food place and there was an almostperson. You know trying to get food, and I said you know what I'm orderingmy food and whatever you want. If you haven't eaten- and they just looked atme and was like you're going to do so many great things in the world- and Ihope it's something involving people- and you know at the time you don'treally think about that or you don't know like it doesn't strike an Ahamoment. But then you start looking more and more like not so much. How can Ihelp people, but how can I guide people? How can I be the light that I never hadfor somebody else and I started looking into you know psychology I looked atwhy the brain does what it does why you know. Why are we here in this earth?What is our life purpose? Our mission, and it just grew for my love ofpersonal development that I saw Oh there's life coaching, so I've been onthis jurney almost ten years now, ten years I didn't realize it had beenthat long yeah I was studying it. I was working with other people and not upuntil two thousand and nineteen. I made it my own business to do it completelymyself. That's that's crazy. What so? What whatwere you doing before this? That's that's kind of when I was the okay? Ihad every job in the book. L, let me Tell You I was coaching whileI was doing everything else, my most recent, I guess jobs that was four orfive years ago was. I was working out a bowling alley. Now I was serving there.I was waitress there. I was bartending there and I was a party host there andit wraps up all of my sense of my personality, because even before that Iwas doing princess parties, so I specialize in balloon. Animals paintinga little faces, working with kids and just more so the parents and I realized,through every stage of every job that I've had it show case a different. Youknow level like I have a not unlocked and new level of my life. That said,you know what I have enough life experience, that if somebody is goingthrough this a little bit worse or anything, I can be the one you knowthat they can come to. So I really harness that, and I really you know,dove deeper into reading and really finding out what I could do. You know,because we have jobs and we're like you know, I'm making ends meet and I'mdoing it, but I'm like how am I becoming more and pashful? How can mylittle teed be something? That's very big?...

I'm the Princess Party thing I thinking about an episode of modernfamily right now I just don't Antoine you likely painting a little girl'sface will as the same time like like by the way like when you're looking atcollege majors like the it was funny, because that's kind of what it wasbecause they would range anywhere man from like five to like eleven years oldright and there's only such deep conversations. You have with kids, butyou tell them like don't stop dreaming whatever it is that you want to do.Maybe just read about it, see who does it and I wanted. Another reason why Ilike the rose is because I plant the scenes- and I feel with with my clientsand what I did in the very beginning. Is I'm very much a dreamer. So if Ifeel you can do anything, then I'm going to give it into you like I'mgoing to pour into you. So you know that you can do anything. So I'm hereplanting seeds and I didn't realize I was doing that with the princessparties, because I'm telling them like you can be a princess. Why not just buya crown come here? How hard was it to not break character like when you'redoing these things o that it was hard because I say let realty for a singleday, you can't break out a character whenyou live. It Ricarra, a princess. What you taught alter ego strong over here when so when?What is there a certain kind of like? Is there like a certain type ofclientele that you look for? Is it kind of a taking off comer sort of thing ordo you do you try to market to? And you know market to but reach out to a certain kind ofdemographic of some kind yeah. For me, it's individuals that are actuallyready to do the work and kind of understanding why you want to do thework, because I'm not going to force you so whether that's coming from youwant to be more productive. You want to be more intentional or ultimately, youwant a better life t, and we say that and I feel like I've stopped saying youwant a better life loosely, because how can you actually monitor that your lifeis becoming better? You can look in the areas and say I want to eat better. Iwant to do this, but ultimately, if you look back a month ago, did you eatbetter every single day every single week? So I'm kind of more talking tothe people more so entrepreneurs that are actually ready to stop givingthemselves excuses and stop saying they're going to do the thing tomorrow,because when tomorrow comes they don't do yeah we every every single day I mean how omonus hasn't done. The whole I'll get the grass tomorrow and I'll. Do One youtomorrow it never happens. It never happens next thing. You know it's Day, five and you're out of socks right right. Have you had a there any been like? IsWe hear like you know? I used to be a teacher, and so we always to have thestories of like. I was teaching the student, but in the end of the day theytaught me something. Have you ever have you had any kind of experience asimilar to that with with clients where you were, you know giving them guidanceor counseling on something, and it wound up, maybe altering a perspectiveor an opinion. You had her just teaching you something in the process.I've actually have that with kids, and I feel that to anybody those of thebest teachers. If you ask the right questions- and I say this because therewas a specific party that I had the little girl- maybe was like eight yearsold but her brother- we just kept having like just random conversationsthroughout their party, and it was something that he's like man. Adultsare so boring. I'm like why he's like all they do is like go to work. I said:Do you feel that they don't have an imagination? Any, do you feel they're,not creative, and he like? What did he is like? No, he kind of don't doanything and I was like well. What do you feel you would do if you were anadult and he like mapped out this whole thing, and I'm like okay well thatperson over there and it was like a regular that comes in. I said thatperson does exactly that, but then...

...doesn't do anything on Tuesdays, and Ilike just looked at me and I'm like you, know what, where are the ones that areshowing up to these kids like we're boring? Because at what point did westop our imagination, our creativity and it kind of, brings you in a Ha likethey don't want to grow up because they don't want to fall victim to I work inan born. They feel, like you, know Peter Pan Syndromes, that they justwant to stay forever young, but I look at it as I have an age because mycreativity is still going. My imagination is still going and I give alot of you know thanks to that, because I love when I'm able to surround myselfwith either my friends, kids or somebody's kids and just get adifferent type of conversation. That's not so much about their work and theirlife, but I drew this today and I love it. I think we all need that. I use manmy imagination every day when I'm at work. I imagine a world where I don'thave to go to my job at er, but when you say it that way, you'renow speaking into not going to any job versus the job that you're at true, yougot to be careful. That's that I walk past the doors out and I'm just kind oflike I could leave. I could CLUSI could walk out that door is. Iimagine you check that. I remember, then I remember there'scicadas out there and I don't go out that door, because it's that time ofyear right now it's great it's awesome, fantastic, so growing growing up. You know we just had to come from somewhere. wasthere someone in your life growing up who acted baby as a catalyst or or plantedplanted that seed with you that maybe grew into what it is now yeah? Idefinitely want to say my mom, because she's always had different mentors andshe kind of spoke a life into our gifts, and I just remember, being twelve yearsold and when she's like here read the strength finder to find out more aboutyou and I'm like Huh. You know- and I did, and one of thebiggest things that have just stuck with me is that I have a woolpersonality and what that means is very you know, extroverted, exciting andpeople might get captivated. You know by me or speaking to me and I'm one ofthose people that, from you know my early childhood, I can go anywhere andI'm just sparking conversation with people and some people may or may notlike it. You know if they come with me, but I can go to the grocery store orsee something in somebody's cart, and I swear for like ten minutes will betalking about grapes or something- and I, like you, know my mom kind ofbrought that she just really wanted to look at. You know what kind of life wewere going to have when we were older, based on our personalities, and so now this hour, many years later, how did you like when you, when youtalk about like what you do now like with your mom or your mom, sees whereyou're at now like? How does that? Do you have that connection with her? Doyou have that bonding with her through, like what that's developed into? I Ithink it's still probably a boat interesting thing for the both of us,because I feel like she saw it, but not knowing to this extent she knew that itwas going to be. You know something with people or that I would just youknow, communicate or just be alike to others. So to know I went down thispath. I don't think she's as shocked. You know, but it's still something thatit's like H, W L, you l like this, since you were little. Oh, that's so great, that's so great,and so you giving your mom are still close. That's great! That's Banta, I'm a momas boy, so I, whenever your somebody say I on goingwith my mom when I'm like that. Doesn't that doesn't make sense to me? I don't!I don't get that so with we with way the way things areworking now with now it's become a it's become a livelihood situation. It'sbecome something that you know. They say do what you love. You never work aday in your life, so it's great that you're doingsomething you enjoy, but outside of the actual work of it all like. What'swhat's the source of? What's the big...

...source of fun relaxation likely,because I'm a big movie Fan and I'm a big podcast fan, I can't watch moviesand listen to podcast all the time because then making them starts to feellike work. So I have to find things to do that. Aren't movie and podcastrelated so like. Where do you go for that that disconnect so that it neverfeels like work? Man? That's actually interesting, because I feel like Ialways keep it because now I enjoy reading and whether that's rating bythe pool you know kind of watching stuff, I'm not really a movie personlike me and TV. Just I've never been. You know interested, but I just like learning and even as apastime, because I like knowing why. So in that aspect, I feel very child likein a sense of wanting to know and wanting to understand. So I always kindof relate that just to my life and even when I'm not doing anything if I do runinto somebody, it's like, Oh, I wonder why this person said this. You know,and I also have to kind of find a happy medium on there's some things that weshouldn't have to understand and shouldn't have to like break down anddigest and stuff like that, but yeah. Definitely a past time is just readingand getting lost in different people's lives, and you know how they came upand overall, it's just fascinating to me. I can't tell you the last time Iactually sat down and like just just got lost in a good book. It's beenyears. I've got I've got hundreds of books, I'm one of those people. I'vegot like you know a hundred books to read, but I'm still going to go, buynew ones, yeah, never read it. I've got them, but I'mnever agree it yeah. What a well was like, what's somethingyou're reading right now man, so I wouldn't have thought thatI'd be reading this, but the book is called the MIDAS touch. It is by RobertKerasai, who did the rich dead port at and actuallyDonald Trump, and it's actually interesting, because the whole kind ofsummary of the book is speaking on the mightest touch, meaning if you've everheard the saying whatever you touch turns to gold, they kind of specializeand speak on why some entrepreneurs are successful and why others fail and theyget into different characteristics of the things and qualities you shouldhave as not only a person but as a company and as a brand, and I wasreally like. I looked at the book and I was like okay, I don't judge book quitscover and now I'm in love, I'm on to send with the book. You never know where you're going tofind yeah. It is what I is speaking of books as you're, the first ever likelife coach, I've ever I've ever like actually gotten to like meet interactwith. So I'm dying to ask this: What are your thoughts on the secret? Okay? So I love it, but let me explain why I look at it in terms of okay, let'sstart to preface that I am not a strong believer in affirmations. I can't justsay that to me if there is no context around it, like I'm a money Magni likewhat, if I don't feel like money, is just thicking to me like sometimes Ifeel like. I have to do it a little bit of work. You know for it to come, or Ihave to have an idea for so with that being said, I look at the secret as itbrings you more to life on the vision of what you want in your life, and Isay that because there's somebody that has told me I can't manifest. I don'tknow how to do this. I want to be a millionaire and I'm like, but you don'treally want that you're, just saying it, because that's what everybody says,what, if you're comfortable making ten thousand dollars a month, fifteenthousand dollars, because you know exactly where that money is going to goto and what are the things that you can do. If I were to ask you and say, okaywrite these things down: What are your monthly expenses? What are the thingsthat you actually want to go do and how many times in a year do you want to go?Do them now? If you were to tell me you know what I just want to take two tripsof her every single year and let's say...

...you average about two Grand Hotel:that's not including if you like, buy gifts and things from there. So nowyou're saying within these trips, let's say you got to save about six thousandnotes. Now you keep adding that to all of your stuff. Let's say in order foryou to live the life that you want, is twenty Sen dollars a month? Now, if yousay you want to be a millionaire, you don't even know how to make that moneydisappear because you haven't thought of enough things. So to me, I look atthe secret as being realistic. You know you want something, but you don't wantit bad enough. I manifested both of the cars that I had. So I was a big BarbieFan and she had a Volta on bug. So my very first car was a Lola on convenableconvertible bug and it was a powder bloom just like Barbie had, but it tookme eight months to manifest it. What I did as I bought all the things for theinside of the car, because I knew as soon as I bought it. I was going to putthis in here. This is the kind of set my car was going to have. I brought itto life now with the car that I have. I have a master mead, it's a two seaterconvertible he to lie covetable, but it was so funny because I don'tknow if you're familiar with like the Turl at, but I rented that car no morethan a month or two I was like. I want this car and I got it because I keptthinking about it and to me that's different than an affirmation of amagnet to car, whatever car that I want I'm going to have well now, that's notin general, and it's not arid general, but it's not specific. So if you takethe secret- and you put it in practice with you, giving you know emotion tothe thing that you want and really feeling that you have it, it works, itabsolutely works, and so, with with things like that, doyou find that the approach to cause you hear a lot of a lot of the lifecoaching things like the secret? A lot of it's focused on you know businessfinancial success. That kind of thing. Do you also see where how a lot ofthese same tips and tricks and things tips and tricks thinks it sound, reallytrivial, but you get how you can like apply those two like like non business,non financial. You know building relationships, things likethat. Do you see where there were? The crossover is with that yeah and thinkof it as like your life's a bucket less. Sometimes we make these lists and neverlook at them ever again, but how adamant are we actually working towardsit? I know something that I'm going to be doing once I launched my actual blogis, since I found out about my DNA for every part of whatever region countrythat I'm from. I want to try the food travel to that place, purchase theclose. That's now going to be a new level of my life that I make a bucketlist, because now I have a definite reason on to, for example, I'm Greek. Inow have refuses to try Greek go to Greece and you know so there'sdifferent things that I have that I'm like. Oh, my God, I just you know Ilevelled up my own life by finding out everything that I have, and just allthe cultures within me that I can go witness now. Instead of saying I mean Idid travel to Hawaii, but I don't have Hawaiian in me. So now I'm like. Oh myGod. This makes it that much more meaningful for me that setting asideyou know business goals whatever. What are your personal aspirations? Yeah? Ifmoney wasn't an issue, what would you be doing in your life and it's so easyfor somebody to say? Oh if I had all the money in the world, but when did westop dreaming and I think the secret is ultimately telling you to not give upon whatever you're thinking about doing we're going for the record. Greek foois delicious, I'm just going to throw that out. There see I'm here for I'll.Let you know on your on your DNA results. What wasthe one that really caught you off...

...guard like the One? You were likeseriously that on Indonesian really, I was like what I'm telling it's awhole list I haven't. I haven't done mine, yet mybrother and his and his wife. They were doing hers and she was she's been likeobsessed with it now so I'm tempted to do it, but I know I've done growing up.I did a lot of like the genealogy projects and stuff in high school, so Iknow that most of my families, it's a lot of white people, a lot of Irish and German. It's likeyeah. That makes sense that makes sense e you got Irish too. Now I couldcelebrate a me the best way to celebere in Irishjust to get hammered, but you know so. I want to post some questions toyou now we were sponsored by pod decks and we're going to use their mobile APPusing their because we, you know, with with what you do a lot of it ismanifesting it's building towards the future, so we want to talk about your futureusing their deck called the future e freaks me out and an ask some questions.This is going to be like little crystal ball stuff, we're going to be really talking about just what you,what you think the future is is going to be like some of this is about you.Some of this is kind some of your just kind of funny. So let's see like okay, so, like we'll start here,what technology will watches have and twenty years from now, Oh, what technology will watch is how, Oh,my God, I feel like they're, going to be able to do everything right now. Idon't even have an Apple Watch because I'm like, then, why am I going to needa phone and I had, I think they might be able to drive your car because toknow that cars already can park themselves. I'm like Er were you, youknow when I first started driving, but they might men, there are, aren't theyalready able to like do your air conditioning or stuff, or is that justyour phone? Those test was. Are I don't know what those things are insane withwhat they can do now? I was on the on the highway the other day and there wasa guy driving a test lot like straight up like watching a video on on his tothe card, and I was kind of like that makes me really uncomfortable. Actually,yeah yeah, I been crazing. What is the most inconvenient thing inyour life and do you see this changing in the future most inconvenient thing? Okay for one Iwill say being a girl, because there is a lot to us. So when I travel it's nota pack stuff up in five minutes and go, I don't see that changing, but what Ido see changing is getting better at packing. So I went from making packinglist to packing the night before to packing about two nights before, and Ithink it's honestly that and putting on my containers what I do now is pret mylittle travel item. So that way I don't use the same thing and then have to putit in the bag. Take it out so being a little more efficient on traveling,because men could just grab clothes and throw it in the bag because it matchesours have too many moving parts. That's true! I packed the night beforeI never. I wish it to here. Let's pull a couple more of these okay. This is this is a fun. Willpeople have more or less privacy twenty years from now h, less privacy, and I feel we'realready getting into that, because people are showing everything you canfind out where some an is by checking their social media stories before. Ifyou called my house- and I wasn't there- you didn't know where I was, and I feelwe're just going more and more into check in when you get here and savemoney off. If you post about us, so you know that there's so many ways to tagwhere you're at of what you're doing and even on your phones, you can sendyour location anything. Our phones know where we're at so. If you know whereI'm at then, I can probably tell you anything else about my day, alwayscracked me up when people would say...

...that that you're, using the vaccine toplant g PS track and advices on so have an I phone yeah already. No, so also you work at cold, so body careswho you are? Let's do what what teacher? I know you mentioned your mom, but likewhat teacher in your past do, you think has had the biggest impact on yourfuture m. What teacher I don't know if it was school wiseversus you Tube University, because I had some teachers, you know in schooland it was in packful but like getting older and you don't really remember itor say you know what this person specifically now, it's more so seeingpeople do what they're doing and letting me know, wow I'm able to dothat. So, for example, if I look at the coaching world sure, okay, I do haveTony Robins and it's not so much him teaching, but you start looking at whohe learned from different people that are talking. You know, I can also sayin a different sense to say: Bob Proctor, Earl, Nightingale Napoleonhill from thinking were rich. So now my teachers are different mentors that areeither still here or no longer here that I'm continuing to you know digesttheir information. Rey read the stuff that they had. So I think more of animpact is me now of WHO I've listened to and who I'm continuing to consumetheir information. I'll dig it I'll take it. I do. I do get jealous of people thathave had like impact ul teachers in their life. I not that I t had like abunch of bad teachers, but, like I, I have a hard time thinking back onteachers, I had a thinking that that teacher really like changed my life ormy was I I never really had. I had great teachers, but I never had anythat were like super inspiration or anything like that.I kind of had to find that through, like you kind of mentioned, likethrough other means through through the Youtte University, and things like thatyeah and then I feel, as were younger, we're not really looking at life inthat way to determine how valuable they actually were, or they are. You know ifsome are still doing it, but I look at now I'm in the state of betteringmyself. So what that looks like is looking at people who have betterthemselves looking at those steps and then implementing only what I feel willmake a difference for me, because different people can tell you what whathours to wake up, but it also doesn't work if you are juggling in nine tofive or you're trying to just be an entrepreneur or if you are or if youwant to work later on in the day. That's that's actually really a lot.Sorry. That kind of blew my mind a little bit and I'm not sure last one we're going to go to this onedoesn't have to deal with do with the future so much as the past, but whenhave you pulled off the impossible and how did you make it happen like? What's the time you just knockedit out of the park at a the park? I would say when I putmyself first to actually start my business and it was a no longer beingattached to the hip of other coaches. Other people doing, I said you knowwhat I'm gonna do it for me, and it was just the biggest highlight for me then,like I'm doing it and now to say, I have a name for myself now that youknow I have different clients telling me you know. I saw this review and Iwanted to know you know if it was true and it was and then other people likeokay. Well, what can you do for me and I still even change that to say notwhat can I do for you? But how can I show you for you to do it for yourself?You know you lead a man, water, little man late or something to fish or water.Look, I don't even know the saying and I'm really good is cotes but yeah. I don't want to be the oneI'm helping. I'm giding use the...

...knowledge that I've obtain and that'sgot me to where I am to help you get to where you are. I always look at it asI'm telling my like. You know not future me, but pass me. What are thethings that younger n? We needed to hear what something that would havehelped me then, because I'm also not speaking to the people that are on mycurrent journey you're, where I used to be cares how this helped me if youreally take in consideration what other people are saying, you'll move a lotfarther in life by listening to somebody. That's already felt unlessyou want to follow yourself and like all that did hurt, I'm going to looklike all right. Well, how many ventages do I need in case Tafa, but I'm nottrying to fall? Is there something like we ask or to get as this question allthe time, if you could give a piece of advice to your younger self like? Isthere something you'd like to say, I think we gas this conversation withmyself all the time and now, as an adult, it's been to the thing thatyou're afraid of you know whatever, for somebody says: Why are you doing? Thatis the time to do it, and it's so fascinated because that's something Iwould tell my onher self like just do it. You know, but more so if it feelsyou right do it. If you want to know it feels right, sit with it for a littlebit because often times we do things based off of other people, pressuringus to do it or other people telling us not to do. I send this to a client thatshe was afraid to show up alive. You know one instar and I looked at it and,like you know what I don't go live often either. Why it's, because peoplehave made it out that if you show up as who you are right, then, and there it'sthat you need to prey record it you need to edit it, and you need to put itup as perfection. Well, there's not a lot of things that are perfect in thislife. So if you just start saying what am I afraid of you'll see how muchfarther you went on in life, you know not only that, but do like doing theinstar wives things like that the people who are who are partaking ofyour content, my cat scratching the door. So I'm sorry if you can hear thatif you are, if people who are particla of your content, who are following you,they like that they, like that interaction you get from the live stuffand they like the kind of the behind the scenes, the the real life stuff.It's almost humanizing, I think for them. Yeah, and I don't think peoplerealize that, like sometimes we need to step outside of ourselves and say youknow what somebody's saying the real life, what I'm going through, how I'mfeeling and it's fascinating to me, because I kind of feel like that withpodcast and kind of club house, that it's real authentic and it's right,then an there even with podcast like you'll edit it. But you also aren'tediting the emotions and the way that you're feeling and the stuff thatyou're talking about it's like you know what this is, how I felt ripe ten andthere I'm going to talk. Think that's why we like documentariesso much. I gets my people like documentaries, especially the cerakiller ones, to each their own. A now in the world podcast. We talked abouttrue crime podcast all the time, and I think it's because it's it's because again it shines a light orwhy we watch m TV CRIBS or you know, lifestyles ofthe rich and famous. We like seeing how other people that we admire live intheir in their regular everyday life. You know the biggest beyons rolls out of bedwith bed hair, just like everybody else, so differences she's got a whole armyto take care of that. For her, I have a three dollar brush fromwalgreens so before, as we start to wrap up herebefore we before we do, let you go one of the things that that ourlisteners have have wanted us to try out so we're going to we're going totry this out here with you and we've...

...never done this before is they wouldmar listeners? Wanted me to give our guests the opportunity to ask mesomething. So I'm going to I'm going to give you a chance to ask me a question to kind of start to bring things to aclose here m. What does it mean for you to have afulfilled life? I guess M, I think, for me, I'm stillfiguring that out, because in in the last year, so much has changed. For me, I went from living with my mother to move back inwith my parents for a while, and now I own a house and live alone for thefirst time, I've always had family or roommates. I was living with in a placethat wasn't really mine and now, for the first time in my life at thirty twoI have literally my own home and I live alone, and so I think it's figuring outkind of just like how to not get stuck in a routine. Howdo I not just spend every single day on the couch with the cat you know on the computer or whateveryou know, how do I not fall victim to routine because routine is the death ofcreativity? I think so. I think I'm figuring that out,because I'm still figuring out kind of what my what my new normal. I onlylived here for you know, eight months now, so it's trying tofigure out what my new normal is. So, I think, to kind of actually haveanswered the question. I think it would have to be just having that sense of normalcy. I guessyou know I I'm a guy who lives in breezes entertainment. I do stand up. Imake podcast, I make films so to be able to just have a sense of normal seawhere I can disconnect from everything. I think it's probably the best answer for that. I love thatand then here's the tip too for anybody that might be. You know on that samejourney to understanding that look at whose future you and what is Futuri youwant and how does future you live, because when you start looking at thatversus not not so much like goals that you have, but how do you feel in thefuture? You know what makes you comfortable, what makes you happy andwhat makes you again feel fulfilled, but not in the aspect of Oh this kindof money. This! No! If you had again your ideal perfect day, what time wouldyou wake up? What's the food that you're eating, what type of places doyou shot at? We don't think of those specifics, because those are the thingsthat we're doing in every day. Let's say you go to a certain grocery storenow. Are you still going to go to that same grocery store in another five orten years? Do you're seen yourself eating differently, which means yourshop differently, and I say that because that gives you a better senseof perspective on the little changes that you can make out. If you eatbetter in the future, then why don't you start now? How can you make subtlechanges and then you'll ultimately see while I'm living a fulfilled life,because these are the things that I wanted for myself? That's great! It's Great Advice, folks,and I it's not even so it's free. So we tell I love what I do take in Renatifolks, Brian has been fantastic, having you wanted and talking to you day andgetting to know more about you and more about what you do. So what I want to donow is give you the opportunity to simply plug plug plug away. Tell thepeople where they can find you and anything you have that you would liketo direct them to the floor. Is Yours Yeah? Okay, soeverybody guys can find me on Instar at its lovely, be, and my website iswwhile com. You will be able to find it...

...everything on those platforms from myservices. What I do and about me more on why the runs is and just a wholearea of. If you even want to coach, send me a dam. Send me an email. I canwalk you through everything and I'm actually coming out. So when this comesout, I'll probably already have my digital products, but I am in the workslike a whole bunch of digital products, for you to ultimately live wit, betterlife and what that means to you. It's fantastic Briana, Gariel everybodygo to wwhile Y bcomes, make sure you follow her on all the social on onIstora at it's a lovely, be Briana. Thank you so much for coming on thismonth's episode. It was so great to have you on yeah. Thank you for havingme, I loved it. Fantastic all right, we're going to say goodbye to bring outeverybody wave to good bye, to Briana we're gonna, we're gonna, we're goingto say good bye to Brian here and with that being said guys. Thank you so muchonce again for stopping by the VIP table here in the basement. Lounge. Wedo this every single month and if you want to get your questions in and haveto have some questions for our guests, it's real simple: all you got to do wasgo over to Patrono, Tl Pot and join our patron, become a VIP for only threedollars a month, get ax to all kinds of cool rewards, as well as submit yourquestions for our VIP guests every single month. You do this once again,the show is sponsored by Pod. Decks, go to pod decom and use the COB all ten toget ten percent off your total purchase and have in over to our website TV poddot net, to check out everything you back O on n ever there we back again.Next month, with other VIP interview and until Denis always live well, Rockotake care o.

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